December 19th, 2014
How will you celebrate the light in the darkness? As winter draws near, it is a time of going inward. The winter season allows us to align with a slower pace. In the depths of winter, when the bears hibernate, trees put their energy deep into their roots, and many of us dive deeper into the dream world, it is a natural time to retreat.
As we go inward, let us notice the beauty and tranquility of winter. Let us celebrate the light within that is always available. Let us embrace the opportunity for deep rest and integration that winter provides.
How will you keep the candle lit inside yourself this winter?
December 8th, 2014
Breathe and be
Savor and serve
Into the place
That has never been touched
Feeling the pureness
An innocent soul
From beginning to end
Listening to wisdom
Surrounded by light
Belonging to Wholeness
The birth of your presence
Into the womb of your heart
(Reposed from 2/14 by Mary Anne Flanagan)
December 5th, 2014
Meditation is a practice of unknowing.
When you just sit,
you let each breath teach you.
When you allow thoughts to flow through you,
you learn from each moment.
Breath by breath.
Moment by moment.
Just have to keep coming back to the cushion.
November 26th, 2014
On the day when
the weight deadens
on your shoulders
and you stumble,
may the clay dance
to balance you.
And when your eyes
the grey window
and the ghost of loss
gets in to you,
may a flock of colours,
indigo, red, green,
and azure blue
come to awaken in you
a meadow of delight.
When the canvas frays
in the currach of thought
and a stain of ocean
blackens beneath you,
may there come across the waters
a path of yellow moonlight
to bring you safely home.
May the nourishment of the earth be yours,
may the clarity of light be yours,
may the fluency of the ocean be yours,
may the protection of the ancestors be yours.
And so may a slow
wind work these words
of love around you,
an invisible cloak
to mind your life.
By John O’Donohue
November 18th, 2014
“There is no need to go to India or anywhere else to find peace. You will find that deep place of silence right in your room, your garden or even your bathtub.” ~Elizabeth Kubler-Ross
I have noticed that when the sun is shining and the buses are running smoothly, it is very easy to go into a relaxed state. My meditation practice happens during the moments of rainy days and when the traffic is at a stand-still. How can I relax more?
It all starts within. When my mind is at peace, external happenings do not cause stress. When I experience that the nature of my mind as peace, it makes all the puddles in the street and the delays on the highway easier to deal with.
During a walk last week, I looked out at the colorful trees, the still waters, and became absorbed in nature. I felt my whole body become relaxed. I stopped along the path and recorded a four-minute meditation on relaxation. As I replayed it, I noticed pauses in the video. At first, I thought the pauses would be a distraction to all who watched the video. And then I remembered, we are called to relax into the pauses. It’s where the healing happens. When we pause, we remember. When we remember, we breathe. And we breathe, we relax.
Enjoy this meditation video on relaxation. And remember to pause, remember, breathe, and relax.
November 13th, 2014
The peace you are seeking is seeking you. The forgiveness you are waiting for is waiting for you. ~Enlightened One
I recently re-read Viktor Frankl’s book, Man’s Search for Meaning. Frankl, an Austrian psychiatrist, was imprisoned in Auschwitz and Dachau, and he writes eloquently about his harrowing experiences in the death camps. It was through unimaginable suffering that Frankl was able to find meaning not only in his life, but to fully understand how others find meaning in theirs. He writes in his book, “When we are no longer able to change a situation…we are challenged to change ourselves.”
How can we change ourselves? Viktor Frankl writes, “Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms – to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.” Forgiveness has taught me to live in the present and leave the past behind. When I find myself seeking peace, I have noticed that peace is seeking me.
Are there people and situations in your life you are still carrying around with anger, disappointment, and sadness? Perhaps it is time to fully let go.
Look for an upcoming announcement about a new course on Loving-Kindness that will begin in 2015. Stay tuned!
November 4th, 2014
As I come across beautiful places throughout my travels I often pause and record a three to five minute meditation video. They are unedited and offer a focus that I am feeling in that very moment.
As part of my meditation practice, I headed down to the end of my street on City Island in the Bronx to see an evening sunset. As the light began to change from an orange to an incredible vermilion, I realized it would be a perfect moment to record a meditation. Right on cue as I held up my iPhone and hit record, a helicopter flew in the background and a bird started to sing loudly. I decided to continue recording and use all the sounds in nature as part of the meditation. As I began recording, I had to become centered and focus on the meditation. I had to turn the background noise into a meditative hum.
In that moment, I realized our mission is to use everything as meditation. Transforming loud sounds into peaceful soundscapes can be a beautiful experience.
Truth is, life is filled with noise. And if we are really honest, our mind is filled with noise throughout our day.
The gift of noise is that we have to choose to zone in rather than zone out.
As you listen to this meditation, I invite you to notice the places of irritation and the places of peace. All of it is useful. At the end of the day, everything is meditation if we allow it to be.
Enjoy this beautiful sunset meditation.
October 30th, 2014
For the broad-winged hawk sitting on a wire, then rising up, spreading its wings, and gracefully soaring above me. For majesty, thank you.
For the pink sunrise that reaches across the sky during an early morning commute. For beauty, thank you.
For the October vermilion sunsets that blazes over the water reflecting the deep colors within. For light, thank you.
For the relationships that fill my life with love and laughter. For meaningful connections, thank you.
October 22nd, 2014
When I think about how easy it is for me to live fully aligned with who I am with what I do, I think back to the story of selling acorns for a penny. Back when I was around seven years old, my sister, Dawn, and I filled an old blue baby carriage with acorns from our street. My sister and I would walk on our block and pick up acorns that landed on lawns from the large oak trees that surrounded our neighborhood. We went door to door and asked people if they wanted to buy an acorn for a penny. I have a vivid memory of seeing the smiles on the adults’ faces when they looked at the two of us selling acorns. No one turned us away. They all bought acorns from us – many even bought five or ten acorns.
I don’t imagine anyone needed acorns in their homes. They bought them because they knew the Flanagan girls, because it was a unique idea, because they saw the childhood joy on our faces, and because it was a reasonable price. Now as an entrepreneur, I think back to the days of selling acorns for a penny. I model my life and business after that experience. All of my work is based on building relationships, sharing unique ideas, bringing joy, and offering classes and private sessions at a price that allows for accessibility.
When people feel good about paying for something and want more, then I’ve done something far better than “selling a product” – I’ve made an impact, created a change, and built sustaining relationships.
Isn’t that what being ourselves in the world really all about? Life really is about showing up fully, joyfully, vulnerably, and creatively.
By the way, I have more acorns for a penny if you want some.
What is acorn story? What gifts are you sharing in the world?
How are you living fully aligned?
October 20th, 2014
As I walked on nature trails last week, I decided to pause and record a five minute meditation on happiness. I felt so happy to be outside walking in nature and bird-watching. Looking out onto the water and trees, I paused and began an impromptu meditation. I usually record whatever I am feeling in the moment so I began to record a meditation on happiness. As you will hear in the meditation video, I invite participants to draw in happiness with each breath and expand happiness with each exhale. As I began to wrap up the meditation, I was speaking about how happiness arrives when a flock of birds flew around and landed right in front of the camera. :Happiness arrives – in perfect timing.” Please watch and pay attention to the last 40 seconds of the video as it was unplanned, and yet, arrived in perfect timing.
Wishing you happiness~